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A dream life

Posted by angeltess , 05 April 2012 · 86 views

Last night I had a dream. I went to 'my other life' – my dream life.

I have this recurring dream; where I go to a place which is so familiar to me I know it really well. I always get there by bus, get off at the top of a hill and walk down and turn left into a big museum.  It's a huge building – partly circular where the entrance doors are.  I walk in, and the spherical walls are somehow hung with exhibits.  It's all made of wood, wooden staircase, leading up to a further gallery, this one long and straight.  Back down the stairs, turn left and there's a further door which leads to a kind of church.  I love this place, and I feel at home in it.

Last night I went in and was greeted by my old Maths teacher, who in my dream was my old English teacher.  I know, I'm weird.  He told me that there was a Boccaccio exhibiton.  I looked around and there were paintings of him and books and documents inside cases.  Now, I love Boccaccio, though I've only ever read The Decameron – but in my dream I was to present a talk about him to some learned visitors.

I was in my element – and happily agreed to it.  I had to write out a kind of pr้cis in old fashioned writing, which I did, and was eagerly waiting to give my 'lecture'.  

Then I woke up.

It's strange, but in this dream world, when I dream of things like this, I feel more complete. I think it's what I'd have liked of my life had circumstances led me that way.  

More often, though, my insecurities surface in my dreams, rather that my desires, so I love it when I have a comforting dream like this one.

Perhaps our dreams are another world, a different existence, an extension of who we are or would like to be.

I'm fascinated by people's dreams, where our brains re-organize and try to make sense of our everyday lives.  I've had so many that are meaningful and familiar like this one, and quite a few which have later come true, so perhaps there is more to them than we'll ever know.




Jan
I'm getting into producing visualisation relaxation CDs. Your happy place dream sounds very similar to the techniques I am utilising. Mindfullness meditation et al are very useful tools and certainly beneficial
Andy
The CDs sound a good idea Andy.  You're right, it is my happy place - trouble is I only dream about it, it's harder to visualize when I'm awake.  Perhaps I should practise mindfulness meditation, as it would be nice to feel comfort like this when I'm awake.
I find dreams fascinating too. I didn't dream for nearly a year when I was on copaxone, bloody missed it!
I'd highly recommend mindfulness meditation, the course I've just finished has helped me heaps and just knowing I can put the CD's on and relax is a really nice thing, plus the skills the meditation gives you are carried through to the rest of your life not just whilst meditating, so it's really good.

Mustard x
It really sounds like a lovely place to transport yourself to Jan.

Peace and tranquilly in a place you feel safe and happy.

I tend to have very bizarre dreams.  I'm almost always in my nightclothes in my dream, everyone else is dressed properly and nobody seems to notice I'm in my nightie !!

I'm sure we could train our minds to be able to get to these places during waking hours which in turn would clearly help us through some of the dark days .

Scully
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Thanks Mustard, I read your posts on mindfulness meditation - it does sound like it would be really helpful.  I do get pretty anxious about things and it would be lovely to know how to relax myself.  I find it quite difficult to switch off, my mind's always going over things - it would be so nice to truly just feel peaceful.

It is a lovely place, Lori.  I've dreamt of it a few times, but this was the first time I interacted with anyone there, and had a role in my dream.  It just made a nice change, as my usual dreams can be a bit disturbing.  I have other, not so nice, recurring dreams in which I'm packing to get home after a holiday and I end up having to leave all my stuff as the flight's due to take off.  Another regular one is me looking for a toilet, and when I find it, the door's missing, or people can see over the top - that must be my vulnerabilities coming out I suppose.

So, most of my dreams aren't quite so nice and calm as this one.

Jan. xx.
Just thought I'd add this - talking of dreams, my poor son had a nasty experience last night.  He had an episode of what must have been sleep paralysis.  He put his head down, thought he was still awake, but his room was closing in around him.  He couldn't move a limb, tried to call out and couldn't.  He said he thought he'd had a stroke or something.  He started to panic - especially when he saw a hunched figure in his room.  He tried to move and eventually managed to lift his head, which he banged off the wall!!

Then he woke, though he didn't feel he'd been asleep.  I've read about such things before, and though I have pretty disturbing dreams, this sounds really horrible.  I'm now worried he'll get it again, as this can recur.
Hi Jan, Just been browsing through the net looking up my family tree, and amongst one of them i'm sure i came axross part of your dream.The building in question is "Saltsmill" just outside Bradford.Take a look at it if you can, and walk through the various galleries,all full or semi circular with wooden staircases taking you to different levels,all full of paintings and carvings.It just made me smile and think of you and your dream.

ps. I have found out i am a decendant of Sir Titus Salt !!(that's my claim to fame)


Happy dreaming

Cazza :wavebunny: xxxx
David Hockney! &nbsp;Simply brilliant! That's dreaming in colour!<div><br></div><div>Nick</div>
Wow, Cazza, you're from good stock!!  That gallery does look similar to my dream.  I fully expect to some day walk down a road with a sense of deja vu and stumble across my building.  Perhaps it's from a previous life or something haha.

But that's a whole new blog subject!!

I know, I'm nuts!!

xx.
Thinking of my recent dreams, I can't say that i have noticed that I had MS in any of them, I certainly had no problem at all in running at full tilt from the eyeball throwing, blue, one-eyed monsters.
Then again who wouldn't be able to.

Paul

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