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lulubabe

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lulubabe

Hi everyone thanks for all ur messages recentlu. im now home from the hospital thank god. still not in a good way tho. good really bad shakes body feels totally numb as well. walking is not so good either. not sure if the steroids r going to work and i think if they were offered again to me i would refuse. ive had really bad reactions with them and i dont like it. just feel totally crap now.

Sorry for the moan

 

vanessa xxx

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KisM

Aww Vanessa. Sorry to hear that but at least you are home now so rest up. Take care.

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Stumbler

Vanessa, be patient. The steroids will be working for you over the next few weeks. You just need to wait for the results.

 

Just relax, take it easy and let your body repair.

 

:moonieman:


John aka Stumbler (as I do fall over!)

Illegitimi non carborundum

 

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming... "Wow! What a ride!"

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lulubabe

Thanks guys ur support means alot. i am going to try and be patient and just hope i feel better soon. these bloody steroids r making me very emotional as well. bloody weeping like a baby at a drop of a hat - not like me at all. but im sure i will b ok soon.

 

Vanessa xx

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angeltess

Hi Vanessa, I'm pleased you're home. It's a pretty emotional time, steroids or not I'd say, so it's only natural you're feeling a bit weepy. As the others have said, give yourself time and allow yourself to feel this way. And you're in your own home now, so if you feel like having a good cry I'd just let it all out. Thinking of you, Jan xx.


Broken wings can heal and mend again. Don't be afraid to cry your tears out loud. Everybody needs to have a friend. Wishbone Ash.

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xxmariannexx

Hi Vanessa,

Sorry to hear you are not feeling great but glad to hear you are home. Like the others have said just take your time and look after yourself, I really hope things pick up soon.

marianne xx

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Christina

This is the classic post steroid crash that some of us warned about Vanessa. It will take about a week for this to calm down and then you will start to feel better, but it's a gradual process for lots if people. Just rest up and go with it for now. :hearts_circle:

 

Chris x


Not waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain ....

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derby42

hi vanessa. Its good youre home now. Im not a patient person and was quite upset after the steroids i had too. Like others have said just try to rest now. Youve been and done the worst so thats over. Hopefully better times are on the way for you x


derby x

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fourdogs

Hi Vanessa glad you are home , why don't you put a sloppy film on ,relax on the settee have a good cry and let it all out , oh I forgot this recipe def needs a big block of chocolate to go with it ,enjoy .xxxx :console:

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Scully

Hello Vanessa,

 

Glad you are home again now, and so sorry to hear that you are not fairing too well after the steroids.

 

I'm sure, as Chris has said, that over the next few weeks, you will begin to recover and feel much better. We are all hoping that will be the case.

 

Take care, rest up as much as you can, and we look forward to hearing that you are well on the road to some recovery.

 

Scully

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Hi everyone thanks for all ur messages recentlu. im now home from the hospital thank god. still not in a good way tho. good really bad shakes body feels totally numb as well. walking is not so good either. not sure if the steroids r going to work and i think if they were offered again to me i would refuse. ive had really bad reactions with them and i dont like it. just feel totally crap now.

Sorry for the moan

 

vanessa xxx

 

Hi Vanessa glad your out lol.....

 

Steroids well you have to feel worse before you feel better.

 

In about 2 weeks times you will be climbing up the wall lol.......

 

They do take time to work.

 

Try now to rest get lots of DVDs to watch, your duvet a flask of good coffee, some yummy cakes, and just settle down for some duvet days chilling out.

 

Big hugs. Zelx

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