Everything I gone through is nothing compared to my husband wanting to leave me, as his head is all over the place. Its not fair what else can go wrong!!!
Just in case any of you are interested/ able to go I am letting you know about this meeting: http://www.mssociety.org.uk/ms-events/2013/04/join-us-england-council-annual-meeting I received info about yesterday. Great Dane x
Firstly, sorry for what is essentially just me going to spill my guts and offload things into what will probably just be a blog. I havnt really logged in for a few months. Iv been trying to focus on just getting better.
To say that it went well wouldnt be the total truth. I am of course back here.
I guess my main dilemma at the moment is that im in a financial pickle. I have been improving my fitness over the last 6 months or so, and generally feeling better for it. but im far from 100%. Due to money worries, i decided to convince my GP that he should sign me as fit for work, despite being scheduled in for more bowel surgery. This is the same GP who last year shrugged me off as attention seeking and lied about referals. I gave up talking to him about neurological type issues.
Iv just wanted to soldier on. I can still walk. i can still talk. But my symptoms are coming back, almost exactly to their yearly schedule. What the hell is it with this time of year? Why do i get horribly depressed? then get mentally better but hallucinate, and then spend the next few months fighting against my body? My hand has started trying to fold in on itself voluntarily again, and painfully at random times when im trying to be social, or just do a simple task. My opposite leg similarly just randomly deciding that noooooooooooooo we arnt going to walk anywhere for the next half hour. We are going to cry in agony and roll around untill we can straighten it out again. My exhaustion isnt as bad as last years, but its still killing me to have to make myself "rest."
Iv gotten so used to one side of my face regualrly being numb, that the other day i was idly stroking my face when i jumped out my skin with fright. something was on my head.....
......it was my own ear i could feel. i just didnt expect to feel it. how pathetic.
I long for a good nights sleep without waking up, thrashing around and seeing things. I long for the day again when i can just sit or lie still without half of my body being overwhelmed by a HORRIBLE deep itch, that i just have to ride out. Im tierd of having to appologise to people if i randomly cry out in pain as something, somewhere on my body spasms. I had forgotten how much i hate walking into walls.
But whats the point in going back to my gp? unless something major happens i wont be listened to. besides. iv got bills to pay still from last years illness.
My only "hope" that i can possibly get some confirmation that there is something wrong with my nerves, lies with my pending urology appointment. They were unable to insert a cathater into my bladder on the day of my urodynamics tests. She didnt want to confirm anything, but like a few other people, she was wide eyed with horror as she mentioned it sounds like its a nerve problem. Im sure more pelvic MRI scans follow before i find out why i cant pee properly most of the time.
if its a nerve problem - then what? im assuming the urologist would refer or recomend a referal to neuro?
such a long process.
and what releif would an answer be in the end anyway? What ever is happening to me, i dont know how i would cope if it turned out to be MS or anything else incurable. I push people away as it is. I cant imagine what a recluse i would make myself for the sake of not being a burden on anyone. Ever.
i know im getting way ahead of myself. but these are the things that run through my mind that i cant share with anyone. I try to tell myself that im over reacting and that im being silly. But that becomes hard to dispute when some random symptom occurs. My teeth hurt so much recently due to gritting them through the pain.
*takes a deep breath.*
ok, just one more ngiht to get through, then 6 whole days ahead where vital appointment letters could potentially come through the door. Once then come along, then il know where im going and what im doing. Iv just got to grit my teeth a bit longer, thats all.
hi everyone
Its been a while since ive been on and i wish it could have been because i was having a whale of a time out dancing, socialising and such like lol.
I am all over the place at the minute, where to start?? When i last posted i really thought id turned a corner and some kind of normality would resume. So perhaps i over did things who knows. Anyway i took what i thought was a sore throat (no biggie) but then lost the power in my right arm, kinda like if you had slept on it all night , went dead then the painful tingling as sensation came back. so i put up with this for a week as i thought maybe ms playing up due to the throat. Eventually went to GP.
Well she said i had a throat infection gave me a course of antibiotics. finished these still no better. Now my problem is like a pressure at the back of my throat and i am struggling to swallow. This has me freaking out as its kinda like i forget how to swallow (i hope this makes sense)
Neuro has upped dose of amitripyline to 50mg and gabapentin to 600mg 3 times a day and 10mg valium at night. Since this my mouth has totally dried up no salvia at all so have now put meon a spray. This is also contributing to swallowing problem.
Pain still unbearable in legs feet and arm but i havent contacted ms nurses as they will just up dose again.
On top of all this noticed my vision has gotten worse especially when im trying to read, so went to optician today so needed reading glasses but he said that my periforal sight has gotten worse since jan (when i had optic neuritis) and now both eyes are defective. He said it was his recommendation that i no longer drive. Also said aside from damage ms can do all the medication is also effecting eyes. He said dvla will revoke my license as i failed the test.
Anyway i cant stop crying i have tried to talk myself into getting a grip but it isnt working. It just feels like parts of me and my abilities are being stripped away one part at a time. I have 2 young kids and have no idea how i will do school runs and all the trips i had to do with them and their activities and when i return to work. I cant walk very far as i am tripping and staggering aside from pain.
I have always tried to be positive and take the attitude that it will not beat me but at the minute i am feeling defeated.\everyone wants me to go to get some counselling as they feel i am not accepting this and that is why i am so angry.
I am sorry for being so negative and depressing but i dont feel there is anyone i can really vent to as to the rest of the world i put on my make up and smiley face and "hey theres nothing wrong with me!!" but inside im dying! Im back up to neuro in 2 weeks and until then i will struggle on.
sorry again for being a moan im away to find some cucumber to try and fix my red puffy eyes lol
talk soon
debbie xx
Folks,
Just discovered that my Direct Line home contents insurance also offers as part of the standard policy, family legal insurance up to 100K. This covers various things including employment issues.
Well when lawyers are charging
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