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Scully

Hopefull it's all over now Tania...........REST, and MORE REST

 

Scully

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They are not brain lesions..........they are just bright ideas

 

"The truth is out there"

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Michelle

How are you hon?

 

 

Thinking of you

 

 

Michelle :hearts_circle:

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Tania B

Hello everyone and thanks for your best wishes, which I have just read and very much appreciated. Well the LP is all over now :hearts_circle: . I soon learned that it really is different for different people. There were 3 LP patients including me, each with a quite different experience. I was told to take the day off and rest today. I've not had a headache so far but have backache and a sore bladder as I drank some coffee for the caffeine intake to avoid the headache and it's upset my sensitive bladder. So I was up 4 times during the night and felt a bit queazy too. I didn't sleep much so I'm trying to rest now out in the sunshine :hugs2: .

 

It was third time lucky with the LP, trying to do it in various positions. I came over very hot and sweaty and felt sick. Later the doctor told me if I'd been standing I would probably have been fainting. I've never fainted in my life. The difficulty was that I have a twist in my spine 'scoliosis' which made it hard. The doctor mentioned sending me for an Xray if it didn't work before she made the last attempt. I was willing to go into any position just to have it all done and not be sent away for more waiting like the man before me. It seemed to be really straightforward and quick for the last person. I think was laying in the bed with a blanket over me when she left, as I felt so cold. My blood pressure had dropped when measured after the LP and I felt really woozy. I was aided to walk to the loo because of this.

 

My appointment was 10 am but the LP was at 11am and I got home about 2.30 pm.

 

 

Today I'm resting!

 

Love Tania

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Christina

Glad to hear you got through it Tania :hearts_circle: - you're right it can be so different for people but you've done it now so good on you! Hope the results come through quickly too.

 

Chris x


Not waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain ....

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Hezza

Glad you got through it ok Tania - keep up the resting over the weekend :hearts_circle:


Life is short. Eat dessert first. Jacques Torres

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Dianni

Hi Tania so glad you got through the LP :shakehead:

 

As others have said, rest over the weekend hunni and hopefully you will have some answers soon.

 

Hugs

Di

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linds

WELL DONE TANIA,

YOU ARE OVER IT AND RESTING (I HOPE) Love and a massivehug Lindsxxxxxxxxxxxx


Lindsx

 

 

 

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Tania B

Thanks everyone for your kind messages. :shakehead: I thought I'd be fine today, but went to the charity bookshop, where I volunteer on Saturday mornings, but wasn't really fully up to it. It's a pity because I usually really love it and look forward to going. We all volunteer at the shop so there's no one really in charge, but Jo who is the matriarch volunteer suggested I go home ... and I didn't argue.

 

I don't know how much I've been affected by the LP or my other symptoms. My balance was improving noticeably but today I feel very lightheaded.

 

All best wishes

 

Tania xxx

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Dianni

Hi Tania, :shakehead:

 

It's hardly surprising you didn't feel too well today. Not only have you just had an LP but you had all the worry and stress leading up to it. It's my guess that now it's over and done with you are a bit more relaxed and therefore feeling a bit ropey. Things have a habbit of catching up with us!

 

Try to rest for the next few days. You might find that your back feels bruised and is a bit achey. Be kind to yourself hunni.

 

Hugs

Di

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Christina

Hi Tania

 

It takes a while to recover from LPs Tania - I think it usually takes about a week, so you should really rest up for a while longer hun.

 

Chris xx


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Tania B

Thank you for your advice and support. The weather is great here at the moment and I think I should spend as much time as I can outside in the sunshine. However, I fallen so far behind with stuff in the house that I feel I must catch up. Perhaps little and often is my best bet.

 

I keep wondering if I should push myself but I'm getting so tired. My husband sometimes indicates that I pay too much attention to my symptoms, but I haven't told him about all of them. I do feel I need to learn how to handle things much better now, as worse could follow later. So I should make hay while the sun shines.

 

I've got 2 months to wait for my appointment with the neuro. It seems like longer. In the meantime I can't make sense of all my symptoms and I know they are not all in my head.

 

Thank you for letting me air my feelings here. :hearts_circle:

 

Terrible Tania

 

xx

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Michelle

Tania,

 

Try and do little and often. Or do nothing at all and rest.

 

Michelle :hearts_circle:

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Tania B

Thanks Michelle.

 

I'm trying little and often today but I'm falling more and more behind with the things I used to do without trouble. I feel so guilty and inadequate. Most of my fight is draining away with my energy. Perhaps I feel better when I get a good night's sleep.

 

It helps so much coming here!

 

Love

Tania

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Scully

Hi Tania, Just back from a weekend away.

 

I hope you rested over the weekend? Have messaged you

 

Luv

Scully

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They are not brain lesions..........they are just bright ideas

 

"The truth is out there"

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Michelle

Hi Tania,

 

I know these feelings quite well,and I am often told by the OH that's these feelings are not true. Trouble is when you're having feelings like this, they feel real,don't they? :you-rock:

Deep down I know that I'm not inadequate,and I keep in my mind that feelings like that will pass.

 

Be kind to yourself honey.

 

Michelle :cheerleader3:

 

P.S Welcome back Scully :countsheep:

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I'm trying little and often today but I'm falling more and more behind with the things I used to do without trouble. I feel so guilty and inadequate. Most of my fight is draining away with my energy. Perhaps I feel better when I get a good night's sleep.

 

Hi Tania, I'm permanently behind on everything these days and I feel bad about it sometimes too. What happens is that I have a priority list of things that I do when I have the energy to do them - housework in particular is always bottom of the pile! I beat myself up about it less and less now though - if my friends are coming to visit they're coming to visit me not inspect the cleanliness of my home. To be honest if anyone commented on it I'd tell them where the hoover & cleaning products were :lol4:

 

Like Michelle's OH mine is quick to reassure me. I once commented that people would think I was lazy and he said "You're anything but lazy" - bless him. He will also do chores but I have learned to ask rather than wait in the hope that he'll offer - I know him well enough to realise that this doesn't mean he doesn't care, just that he's not me and doesn't intuitively know what I want him to do without me asking him first. :lol4:

 

Don't be too hard on yourself hon. Do as much, or as little, as your body will allow and remember to rest :lol4:


Life is short. Eat dessert first. Jacques Torres

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Christina

Hi Tania

 

I know what you mean too. Everyone who knows me will tell you I'm a neat, tidy and cleanliness freak. I know why I'm like it - it's about staying in control and that's one of my driving forces. So you can imagine the effect a chronic illness has onme. I still try to keep on top of things in the house, garden etc etc and when I'm well enough I pretty much manage it but it costs me. On the other hand when I'm in relapse I have to let go of some of this stuff but it's hard and I get cross with others for not doing the stuff I used to do. It's been a learning curve for me and I do make a mental note now of what's actually important and what can wait until I'm able to do it. Don't beat yourself up about it.

 

Chris xx :lol4:


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Dianni

I'm with you on this! I am such a control freak and learning that I simply can't do the stuff I used to is a hard lesson.

 

I have (and this is VERY recently) learned that if I can keep the living room cleanish and I can squirt bleach down the toilet then really I can let the other stuff go. By doing this ie not worrying whether the cupboard fronts are marked or there's a tide mark round the bath and dog breath marks on the window then I can water the plants in the greenhouse or spend an extra hour on the computer! Far more interesting and worth while than doing housework :lol4: I use my spoons faar more wisely these days. I have finally accepted that I have a finite number and I actually get to choose what I spend them on!

 

I 've also learned to slow down so when I do feel like cleaning and I am really up to it and have enough spoons, I will push the dougal mop thing round then sit down and have a coffee (and bun but don't tell anyone!) then after 15 mins or so I'll wet mop the floor in one room and sit down again (I have a cig this time lol) again after a rest I'll maybe polish and wipe the kitchen sides down. Then after another rest (glass of wine???) IF I still have any spare spoons I'll do the next room.

 

Trust me, up to a few weeks ago, if I felt OK I'd be like a whirrling devlish using every bit of energy and then some mmore to get everything done while i felt OK, worrying that the next day i simply wouldn't have any energy. Make hay while the sunshines type of thing. The trouble was that the following few days i'd be wiped out. It's taken a fatigue management course, an activities diary to learn the lesson, but do you know what? It's worked. The house is presentable(ish) :lol4: and I still have time and spoons to do things I enjoy.

 

I hope this helps hunni. You aren't alone and we all have to find ways of coping with different levels of energy from hour to hour never mind day to day.

 

Remember to save some spoons for the things you enjoy, not just what you feel needs to be done.

 

Hugs

Di

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Scully

I am learning, not getting it right every day.

 

Di, the 'spoon theory' it describes it EXACTLY. SO I'm going to use the theory as well, why on earth I didn't adapt after reading the spoon theory I have no idea !

 

I have very few spoons today,

Have used a few to get up and tidy

Have used a few more to load the dishwasher.

 

I have enough left to take a shower later.

 

If I rest then I may get enough spoons to cook the evening meal

 

IF I run out..........Order in it is !

 

I am Learning, not easy, but I will learn.

 

Scully

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They are not brain lesions..........they are just bright ideas

 

"The truth is out there"

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Dianni

Good for you Scully (in fact ... I'd be tempted to order in any way and keep some spoons in reserve hehehehe)

 

The thing about the spoons is that people can visualise them. When I showed my girls and hubby it it was as though a light had gone on. Now we all talk in spoons lol. The kids will ring up and ask if I have enough spoons to doo such and such. It really is a fantastic analogy. I printed a copy off and took it to my OT group a couple of weeks ago. Everyone was bowled over by it! The lady who wrote it should be nominated for some sort of award!

 

Hugs

Di

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Tania B

Help me! What's all this stuff about spoons?

 

I'm really very tired today but managed to do a day's work, albeit a short day on a Friday. I saw my osteopath and felt like sleeping on the couch but just resisted. I'm planning on walking up to the shop but the walk seems a long way. I'll make myself as I have been sitting all day.

 

All best wishes

 

Tania

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Panda

Hi Tania,

Take a look at the 'pinned' items in ms discussed & you'll find the spoon theory :you-rock:

 

I thought I had more spoons than I did today, i've suddenly ran out :yawn: , think it might be the chip shop for tea

 

Take care

 

Clare

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Tania B

I've taken a look at the spoon theory and think I have a better idea now. I'm low on spoons today. Although I imagine my lack of energy and reserves in terms of a fuel in a tank. At the moment the amber light is flashing.

 

Tania

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Dianni

Hi Tania, so sorry you are running low on fuel :bounce:

 

Hope you manage to rest a bit and get some more petrol in your tank for tomorrow

 

 

Hugs

Di

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Tania B

I managed to do over an hour of wallpaper scraping and a couple of hours gardening yesterday. However, I did need a sleep :hippy: in the late afternoon/ early evening. I think the mild, bright autumn weather helped me a lot. The dark, dull, damp days we were having last week was pulling me down rather.

 

It will be 3 weeks ago, on Thursday, that I had my LP and I keep thinking about the results. I imagine a technician, in a laboratory, discovering the results of many anonymous LPs, one of which is mine. Just a day's work for one person.

 

A bientot

 

Tania X

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