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Was I wrongly diagnosed? Help me please!

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Mimi

Hi Mark, what a bu*&&$


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Lindyloo

Hi Mark forgot to say i think there is a link here somewhere on Claustophopia as a few of us here have experienced panic attacks while going for MRI scans.. I think Mikey started the thread a while ago.. but im sure if you find it you might feel alot better knowing how common this 'panic' is.

 

chat soon mate


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Hezza

Hi Mark,

Here's a link to the post that Lindyloo mentioned: MRI Claustrophobia

 

As the others have said please don't be too hard on yourself. In situations like this we don't know how we are going to react until we get there. I'm glad that the staff treated you well - as the others have said you won't have been the 1st and won't be the last to feel how you did. Sedation is definitely an option to discuss with your Neuro when you see him.

 

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Lindyloo

Aww thanks Cara ...you little angel .....I knew it was somewhere...and that this was discussed before..

 

hugs

 

Lindyxxx


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yorkie9668

I cannot have another MRI, because I failed to have the original, and the Neurologist thinks I am only suffering from Chronic Tension Headaches, so he thinks an MRI is a waste of time!!!!!!!!!!!

So yesterday my Doctor did not want to extend my sick note, she suggested I went back to work driving a 44 tonne lorry around Europe!

 

Is it me or am I been messed about?

 

I said to the Doctor, if it is CTH, which I think it is not, then why would you as a professional medical person advise me to drive lorries?

Funny thing really, she relented and gave me another sick note, she also has sent a request for a CT Scan, although I have no idea if that will be a waste of time or not.

Sorry but yesterday for a moment I felt sick and really upset and just wanted to give in and end my life, it it was not for our little daughter who is 3 months today, and my very strong partner Sarah, then I saw no way forward, I feel like a fraud, but why?

Where do I go from here, when my own GP's think there is nothing wrong with me?

 

Taking Sarah for a meal tonight, it is her Birthday, a friend is having to take us becuase I cannot drive, so how the hell can I be expected to go back to driving big lorries?

 

Happy New Year everyone, so sorry I am down, but I am defo not out xxxx

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Mazz

Hiya. I hope you have/had a nice meal tonight and managed to enjoy it. I can imagine how deflated and bloody frustrated you feel. My faith in the medical profession has been a bit damaged in the past. Like you said, how can you be expected to drive massive lorries around when you don't feel you can drive a :cold: car??!! What a joke. I think it's unfair that they won't let you have the MRI...they clearly thought it was worth ordering it in the first place. Not your fault you had a panic attack. How's about writing a letter to the neuro or getting a second opinion....even via a different GP? It's all such hard work sometimes! A constant battle, but you can't give up on it because it's only you who loses out if you do. :coffee2:


Mazz x

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Meche

Hey Mark,

 

the first question my family were asked when I was admitted to hopsital due to bblurred vision, dizziness, numbness etc was Has she taken drugs or drink?? Then they thought I had Bells Palsa as it was mainly my face which was effected, then a stroke, the they thought MS but my syspmtoms werent disabling enough, until I took really bad relapse and eventually got MRI and LP which gave defo diagnoses of MS. I think the not knowing whats up and all the theories and "you may" have's were the worst for me, in a way when I was given defo diagnosis I was relieved that I had a name for what was up and it wasnt all in my head as many of the symptoms I had noone could see, except for the dizziness which made me sway about!!!.

 

Keep your chin up and congratulations to you and your wife on your baby news

x


Meche

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Michelle

Hi Mark,

 

I'm sorry to hear that you felt like ending your life,you must have been quite desperate to feel that way. It's always best to talk about these feelings,and you did exactly what I would advise someone to do...talk to someone.

 

To be honest I think your g.p is trying to work with you,especially as she's ordered a CT scan. A CT scan isn't as claustraphobic as an MRI scan,it's so simple a test and it's very quick. I had one a few months back when they were looking for area's of brain bleeds. I am sure that you will be fine with this proceedure. As I mentioned in a previous post,please make sure that you maintain a good relationship with your g.p. Honestly they can sometimes be in the dark just as much as we are,and many times it's trial and error on thier part. Hang in there!

 

As for the feeling of being an hypercondriac; this is a common feeling experienced by a lot of people who have unexplained medical histories. Why do you feel this way? It's because you don't feel that your symptoms are being taken seriously. When you feel that you have been listened to and understood, you are less likely to feel this way.

 

Personally, I would wait for the CT scan and take things from there. Sometimes it takes small steps to get to where you want to be. In the meantime,try (not said lightly) and concerntrate on all the good things that you have in your life. If, and I say if you have thoughts of taking your life again,chat to your g.p about it. They wont know how desperate these unexplained symptoms make you feel,unless you tell them.

 

Love to you and your family

 

Michelle

 

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Hi all, I am 41 and live in Yorkshire, my name is Mark and I live with my partner Sarah, we are expecting our first daughter in two weeks.

 

To cut a long story short I became ill back in late 1999, the docs said it was exhaustion, but after further checks I was diagnosed with M.E. ( CFS), although this did not affect my everyday life, I kept working, but over the years it has got worse, I have had periods off work due to very bad fatigue.

 

About 5 weeks ago my symptoms took a major dive, I became very dizzy, disorientated, and driving my 44t lorry around europe was not possible, I was and still am in agony, but my docs keep saying it is M.E. I am not too sure anymore.

 

Quite by chance I saw a different doctor 2 weeks ago, she noticed that I had a Tremor down my right side, she asked how long I had had this, I explained that I started to notice it a few years earlier, but recently it had become violent sometimes, I also get major headaches, mainly down my right side of my head all the way down to my neck.

 

I never once thought about MS, but my partners mother questioned my symptoms, and was shocked to hear them, she used to be a nurse, and her step-daughter has just being diagnosed with MS, she made me aware at how simialiar our symptoms seemed.

 

Also I have had bowel problems for years, my previous doctors sent me for a colonoscapy 2 years ago, Sarah's mum was shocked that they never tied both illnesses together.

 

Gladly the Doctor I saw 2 weeks ago has requested a visit to a Neurologist in York, so that I can have an MRi, maybe we will get to the bottom of it, driving has become dangerous, so I have stopped, I see double most of the day, and I am sick of the grey blotches in my vision.

 

Maybe it is M.E. maybe not, but I can see the similarities with my symtoms with MS rather than M.E.

 

If you can help then please respond or PM me.

 

Many many thanks in advance, a very worried and confused Yorkshireman

 

 

Hiya Mark

 

Yet another tyke seems to becoming a theme that makes 3 at least lol. I dunno whether you have MS to be honest everyone with MS seems to suffer in different ways.

Good luck at the neurologists hopefully some treatment can be adminstered

 

Take care

 

Peter

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yorkie9668

My CT Scan is booked for Saturday the 6th of Feb, although I have had to make a complaint to my local Surgery due to the attitude of Doctors regarding my illness, they do not seem to be taking it seriously, and I am starting to get worried now, what do I have to do to get it through that I am not making this up?

Last Friday I went to my Doctors, made an appointment with one I have seen the most, becuase my right leg tremor is getting worse, now I have constant pain, and a burning pain on my right thigh, which also feels dead at times, the Doctor suggested the same Anti-Depressants as before and I was mortified, but there you go, what am I to do next?

Below I will list my main ailments, if anyone has any ideas then input would be greatly recieved, this is the list I have sent to the Doctors Practice Manager, fingers crossed someone will listen to me and we can try to get a diagnosis!

 

Head cloudiness (all day)

 

Fatigue (all day)

 

Tiredness (all day)

 

Tremor right leg (all day, but worsens when laid down, feels like a drill at times)

 

Loss of feeling in my toes and fingers, mainly when hot or in the bath

 

All of my symptoms become worse if I get hot, or I am subjected to heat

 

Sharp dull pain in my right leg

 

Sharp burning pain right leg thigh

 

Headaches, but not like Chronic Tension Headaches

 

Dizziness

 

Nausea

 

Vision problems

 

Problems with co-ordination

 

Memory loss

 

Sleep problems, even though I go to bed tired

 

Bowel problems, feeling like I have not been even though I have

 

Facial pains, normally down the right side

 

This list is not exhaustive, there are quite a few other symptoms, but they do not happen all the time.

I hope everyone is coping fine, keep in touch, Mark x

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Christina

It all sounds like you need a neurology opinion to me Mark and that's what you're entitled to.

 

Chris x


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yorkie9668
It all sounds like you need a neurology opinion to me Mark and that's what you're entitled to.

 

Chris x

 

 

To a certain extent I have had an opinion from a Neurologist, from York Neurology, although he did not have an MRI or CT Scan to refer to, he seemed to have made his mind up before I turned up, quoting him he said, "you have been a lorry driver for 18 years and smoke" and went on to say, "if anything shows after an MRI, I would put it down to the fact that you smoke".

Hard as this is to beleive, my Fiancee Sarah was with me, and to say she was taken aback would be an understatement, sadly the Neurologist seemed to come to the conclusion I might be suffering from Chronic Tension Headaches, he took no notice of my 'FOG' I suffer daily, or the tremor, so sadly I am back to base 1, lets see what the CT Scan throws up, although my Doctor has already said she thinks it will show nothing!

I am sadly been treated as a Hypocondriac, someone who does not want to work, well I am so so sorry, but I want to work, I have what I can only describe as one of the best jobs going, I really enjoy driving, and I have done it for 18 years, all over Europe, and I really want to get back to it, but I cannot drive feeling like this, end of!

 

Many thanks Christina x

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Christina

Hmmm, Mark I think I might be asking for referral to a specialist in MS even if the CT shows nothing. It's horrible to feel you're being treated as a hypochondriac when you know there's something wrong.

 

Chris x


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Hezza
Last Friday I went to my Doctors, made an appointment with one I have seen the most, becuase my right leg tremor is getting worse, now I have constant pain, and a burning pain on my right thigh, which also feels dead at times, the Doctor suggested the same Anti-Depressants as before and I was mortified, but there you go, what am I to do next?

 

Hi Mark,

I'm so sorry to hear that you're still having to fight for answers, hopefully the CT scan will help to shed some light on things.

Please don't get too stressed about the fact that the Amitriptyline tablets are anti-depressants. They are commonly prescribed for Neuropathic pain as well and I know that several of us here are taking them. I have been taking them since last summer for my own symptoms and they really do help.

 

Take care and let us know how the scan goes :lol4:


Life is short. Eat dessert first. Jacques Torres

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happyandy

Hi Mark,

 

My brother-in-law is a GP and he said some doctors will go a whole career without encountering someone with MS. When your neurologist stated that your problems were because you are a "lorry driver and you smoke" one would logically infer that anyone who had your symptoms must have an HGV license who is partial to a Malboro light.

 

As Hezza says Amyltriptaline gets used a lot for neuropathic pain. My consultant said it wasn't really much cop as an anti-depressant but had the beneficial side effect of pain relief. I take it and I have a Mary Poppins disposition.

 

Keep the chin up, there are a lot of folks out here rooting for you.

 

Andy


If I knew I was going to live so long I would have taken better care of my body

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yorkie9668

Excuse me, I must have got it all wrong, I went to see a Doctor at my local surgery last night because my symptoms have taken a major downfall, he said he has seen my letter of complaint, and wondered if I wanted some Anti-Depressants, because in his Porfessional opinion I am "Depressed" !!!!!!

 

So in theory I said have I been depressed for over 12 years, and why do I have the Tremor, he could not explain either, I show no signs of depression whatsoever, and my friends are shocked at his assumption, or diagnosis, never mind my feelings, oh well back to the drawing board, see what the CT Scan throws up on Saturday?!

 

Many thanks for the support and replies, hopefully we will get some answers soon, oh and by the way I was on anti-depressants for 9 months after my Daughter died back in June 2007, and they never helped any of my symptoms, he has that information on his screen, but chose not to refer to it!

 

Here's hoping !!!!!!!!!!!!

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Michelle

Sometimes it makes you wonder why we bother going to the g.p's. I'm sorry to hear that your g.p was of the impression that you are depressed. If anti'd's didn't help you through the death of your daughter,what did? Maybe you can implement some of the coping stratergies that you used then. As you say,hopefully Saturday's scan will shed some light on things for you. I really hope that it does.

 

 

Fingers crossed for you

 

 

Michelle

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yorkie9668

What I was saying is, when my Daughter passed away, because of my unknown symptoms, the Docs in Devon thought I might be depressed, I obviously was not, I dealt with the loss very well, and at the time kept my Wife above the water.

What I do not understand is why they keep saying it could be derpession, when I do not show any signs, or feel depressed?

 

I have a lot to be thankful for, a great partner, beautiful baby daughter, my older kids, we are not struggling financially so what do they want to do, turn me in to a Manic Depressive?

 

Oh well back to the drawing board lol

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Michelle

It makes you wonder. All I can say is you know your own body better than anyone,so stick with it.

 

 

Michelle :wink2:

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yorkie9668

Yippee just had a successful CT Scan in York this morning, now the wait for the results!

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Mimi

:hearts_circle: Hi Mark, Mimi here, I hope that the CT scan went OK?

 

I equally hope that the results are conclusive and that you are not treated so badly by your Dr's.

 

I know it's a pain, but have you thought about changing surgeries, not just seeing a different doctor at the same surgery?

 

I had a private MRI in Cheltenham and it cost me just over


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Michelle

Glad the scan was successful.

 

 

Michelle :hearts_circle:

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RedSonja

Only just noticed this thread, sorry, I have to out myself as a tyke too.

 

MS and ME are related I think. We have both in the family (old Yorkshire Dales tradition).

 

I have a theory that MS is their last resort when they can't think of anything else. They don't know what causes it and they have no cure yet. Let's hope in your case they find something they can cure. There's worse than MS, really there is. I spent some time in the cancer ward a few years ago, among people who were not going to see Christmas again, busy saying goodbye to their grandchildren. Fortunately my lymph nodes were quite innocent, and I am still tripping over the rug, but with less self-pity than before.


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Jo41

Hi Mark

I'm going through something similar right now. There appear to be a lot of similarities between ME and MS, but like you, my ME pattern has changed dramatically over the last five years.

 

What happened with the scan? Have you had the results yet?

Sounds like you've really been through the mill :(

Take care

Jo x

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